Archive for August, 2009

RELATIONSHIPS: Different Types of Parent-Child Relationships from Provider-Parent Partnerships at Purdue

Authors: Lynette C. Magaña with Judith A. Myers-Walls and Dee Love

There are different kinds of attachment relationships that can be put into different categories. These categories can describe children’s relationships with both parents and childcare providers. Research has found that there are at least four attachment categories. The categories describe the ways that children act and the ways that adults act with the children. The strongest kind of attachment is called ’secure.’ The way a parent or provider responds a child may lead to one of the four types of attachment categories. The way a child is attached to her parents also affects how she will behave around others when her parent is not around.

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WORK AT HOME: Work from Home by Tammy Harrison from QuiltTherapy.com

One of the biggest questions I get, from men and women alike, is how in the world did I get started working from home.

Know what?  It just happened.  Well, I mean, staying home was intentional on my part – but, most of my work fell in my lap, and I was smart enough to see a good thing when I had it!

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Before we had children, my husband and I decided that one of us would always be home, to raise the kids.  I honestly didn’t care which one of us stayed home, but both of us working outside of the home was not an option for us.  Our future children needed the stability of at least one parent, always.  My personal reasonings were because my folks died at such a young age that if I inherited their genes, I wouldn’t live to see my children grow up – and I wanted to give them all that I could, before that time potentially occurred.  For my husband, it had more to do with who was parenting the kids – giving them the core values that we held ourselves up to.  That should only come from a child’s parents.

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LIFE BALANCE: 12 Rules to Find Balance in Your Life by BC Doan from Socyberty.com

We live in a hectic world, and our lives sometimes spin out of balance. Here is a simple list of twelve rules to experiment.

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  1. Have a Mantra:  A mantra is the main focus of meditation, a word or a phrase that you use to center your mind, bring calmness to the body, and assist with concentration. Use whatever word or phrase that bring you to meditation, and use it throughout the day to gain more control and feel calmer. 

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PASSION FOR LIFE: Following Your Passion by Stacey Kannenberg

Do you get up every day eager to start the day?  Do you love what you do?   Do feel as if you are following your passion?  Does your existing life have meaning? If you answered yes to all of the above—bravo!  I mean BRAVO!  You make up a small percentage of the world.  You need to share your success with others!

If you are still searching for your passion, it might be right around the corner or right in front of your face.  Keep looking!   My “aha moment” came just before turning 40 when I was trying to get my own children ready for school.  I couldn’t find exactly what I was looking for so I decided to write, self-publish and distribute a line of children’s educational books.   That’s the pat answer for the media, but really it was more like a brick hit me in the face and I just knew what I was meant to do!

In my case, it started with a series of Oprah shows; first it was the walking buddy show where I started walking with a neighbor to get in shape.  She was telling me what her daughter just learned in Kindergarten.  I was amazed as I did not realize how advanced the Kindergarten curriculum had become.  So I set out to find a book to help my 3 and 1-year-old girls prepare for their first day of school.    I couldn’t find exactly what I wanted.  I did not want a storybook on Kindergarten or a workbook.  I wanted a simple book that I could put my children in my lap that we could read and learn the Kindergarten curriculum.  I wanted something engaging and fun, yet simple enough that I could teach simply by reading it to them. 

One summer day in 2003, I was walking with my walking buddy. I mentioned that Oprah was having something called The Big Dream Contest and I mumbled that I wish I had an idea for Oprah’s Big Dream Contest.  My friends answer, changed my life.  She said,  “How about that Kindergarten book you can’t find, one book for every grade that helps parents, kids and teachers.”  The minute she said it, I knew it was what I was meant to do.  It was my defining moment, the brick finally hit me in the face and “aha” I knew it was what I was suppose to do.  So I started to make it happen with writing and working with educators and curriculum specialists, parents and kids.  I did not submit the idea to Oprah’s Contest at the time, it was just too good of an idea that I was simply meant to do. So I did.

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How did I do it?  Ironically, Oprah seemed to answer my questions at every step along the way.  She even had a show on self-publishing when I was at the point when I was deciding how to publish, so it was like a message directly to me complete with the tools to publish it myself.  So that’s what I did.  Oprah had a show on successful Mommy Companies as if to reinforce my decision and a show on her trip to Africa, which inspired me to make my books available with global characters, available in many languages <still working on that>, and durable to withstand the huts in Africa.   

I fell into my passion and have been stumbling and bumbling along the way and still listen to Oprah and watch for other signs to point me in another direction or give me the tools to jump the next hurdle along the way.  Obviously Oprah was a huge influence on my life and this is what I know for sure, if I ever meet her I will do the ugly cry and pray that I can actually get the words “thank you” out of my mouth.  She has had that affect on millions of other people too.  I find it amazing that someone I have never met or spoke too had the power to show me the way.  If this can happen to me, it can happen to you!

Look around and listen.  Are you passing by your signs?  Do you ignore your gut?  Does something keep coming up time and time again?  Listen with an open mind and heart and see what comes your way.  It could be someone you have never met, someone standing in the line at the grocery store that may tell you something that could be life-changing.  Listen and trust your gut.  In my case, it was people I did not know, or those that I did not know very well who became the key to my success.     

Passion has given my life so much meaning.  So now I am on a mission to try to help others find or create passion in their lives.   Might your passion be something that you currently are doing as a hobby or something that you did in the past?   Perhaps, you can try writing down things that make you happy and see if something jumps out at you? 

In my husband’s case, his passion is his hobby — hunting and fishing.  He is most happy sitting in the woods or in a boat.  I encourage him to take hunting and fishing trips because I now understand what joy I get from following my passion, so I know how happy he is when he comes home from a day spent living out his dreams. 

Copyright 2007, Stacey Kannenberg, Cedar Valley Publishing, Let’s Get Ready For Kindergarten! and Let’s Get Ready For First Grade!

Are you ready to find your passion in life?  Might you ask yourself some questions to unlock your passion?  What do you truly enjoy?  We can’t wait to hear about your “Aha Moment” when it occurs for you.  It will be a memorable experience!

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EDUCATION: Innovative Ideas by Donna Mavrides from Magicalms.com

Most professionals in the world of early childhood education are devoted to helping young children, yet, many are too eager to interpret scientific findings in ways that are counterproductive to children’s development. In the last decade or so, scientists have been busy exploring the inner workings of the brain.  They have concluded that since young children’s brains are so pliable, potential for learning is greater than we ever believed possible. 

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Many educators interpret these findings as a way to advocate for high tech classrooms that are filled with every kind of computer and sound system.  While others seem to believe that a young child’s world should be filled with writing instruments, paper, and flashcards.  And then, there are those of us who understand that scientists are not advocating for either of the above, but rather, are suggesting that we should create safe, stimulating, open ended environments where children’s explorations lead to the creation of a firm and solid foundation for future learning, self confidence, and success.

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RELATIONSHIPS: Fostering Good Family Relationships by Ben Sissom from Helium.com

Fostering good family relationships take work, lots of love and a sprinkle of patience. It isn’t always easy but always well worth the time you put into it. Many family relationships today are not designed and nurtured the way they were even twenty years ago. Dynamic and sometimes complicated situations are mixed in to make them more challenging. In a world of divorce that translates into second marriages with step-parents and siblings relationships can be larger in scope and more difficult to sustain.

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Yet with every challenge comes a blessing and it is up to each of us to help these relationships grow.

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WORK AT HOME: Tips for Saving Money as a Home Business Owner by Lesley Pyle from HBWM.com

It’s hard to avoid feeling the impact of the current financial situation. It can be felt in increased expenses and possibly a decrease in customers. But there are a few easy steps you can put in place to help slow the flow of money going out the door.

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Printing Expenses: Find free printing offers, such as Vista Prints e-mail offers. After your first order, you get frequent e-mails with offers. Sales include:

  • Free stationery
  • Business cards
  • T-shirts
  • Postcards

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LIFE BALANCE: Ways to Restore Harmony and Reduce Stress from The Mayo Clinic Staff

If your work life and personal life are out of balance, your stress may be running high. Here’s how to reclaim control.
 
Finding work-life balance in today’s frenetically paced world is no simple task.

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Spend more time at work than at home, and you miss out on a rewarding personal life. Then again, when you face challenges in your personal life, such as caring for an aging parent or coping with marital problems, concentrating on your job can be difficult.

Whether the problem is too much focus on work or too little, when your work life and your personal life feel out of balance, stress — along with its harmful effects — is the result.

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LIFE PASSION: The Power of Passion from TipsForSuccess.org

Improving this single attitude makes your days fly by. You wake up excited to work. You make the right decisions. You get more done in less time.

Improving this attitude affects everyone around you. They believe in you, trust you and want to support you.

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This one attitude can change your entire life for the better.

A vital attitude for you to constantly improve is YOUR PASSION.

On a scale of 1 to 10, exactly how excited are you right now? Do you really want to succeed? Are you thrilled with your goals for today?

If not, you must generate some passion for your day, your week and your career.

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EDUCATION: Learning to Read by Stacey Kannenberg

I think part of the problem for parents is that we are not teachers, who specialize in teaching children how to read and we might be using the “wrong” books to help our children learn to read.  As an author and publisher, I am shocked by the number of books that say they are for “early reading” and yet they are not using the appropriate “early reading” vocabulary or any of the dolch site-words by age group.   I love Dr. Seuss books!! They are fun and engaging and full of repetition and rhyming patterns, but they are hard to use as an early reading book. WHY?  Because word association doesn’t work with Dr. Seuss; he uses silly off-the-wall rhymes that don’t add up in a child’s head.  They would not automatically put together green eggs and ham, unless they already knew the book and the rhyme.   

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Top tips for helping kids learn to read:

  • Empower kids into the process with simple “early reading” books that use word picture association and stress word/picture connections.
  • Practice getting kids to draw one page word picture association, such as draw:  Tom has apples. 
  • Getting them to make the connection and guess what the next word is – Tom has…they can see the apples so they can say, apples.
  • Play games to get children to guess word association: if I say peanut butter, you say: __________.
  • Practice, practice, practice with the early learning books that specialize in word picture association and seeing words in the early learning vocabulary. 
  • Make it fun with lots of picture books about repetition and rhyming patterns that are geared to “early reading”.

Smiles – Stacey

Stacey Kannenberg
“Ready To Learn Mom”

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